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Queen's utmost desires

You were born into a life of power, wealth, and prestige. As queen you are a symbol of opulence, with palaces, jewels, and fine clothing at their disposal. You have access to the finest food, wine, and entertainment, making for a life filled with luxury and comfort. But definitely the best thing about this life is you being surrounded by a large staff to attend to your every need, freeing you from the mundane tasks of everyday life. Having your servants satisfying your utmost desires, how spicy and convenient...

Preparation steps:

  • Develop your character: Start by creating a backstory for your queen and the servants. What is their history? How does she see herself? Consider her personality, relationships, and any quirks or eccentricities that make her unique.
  • Choose your appearance: Consider what your queen would wear, including jewelry and other accessories. Think about the fabrics, colors, and styles that would be appropriate for your sexy role play. You can also use make-up, hair, and body language to help bring your character to life. As for servants you should consider wearing just a shirt or some underwear one could easily strip off.
  • Set up the scene: Instruct your servant to arrange the room to your specifications for your upcoming relaxation, while you immerse yourself in a hot bath or enjoy a glass of champagne on the terrace. Later, upon inspection, if the room is not up to your expectations, it would be a great disappointment, as you demand the highest level of excellence from those who serve you. Use your imagination to discipline your servant in a manner that you see fit, and motivate them to strive for your satisfaction in the future.

Some tips:

  • Let them pamper you: Its a role play, so don't be shy to dominate. Remember: the satisfaction of the queen has the highest priority.
  • Change roles: Every queen has a king who has his secret spicy desires as well. While the queen is out of town it's the sexy servants duty to please her king.

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