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A great way for couples to spice up their sex life is to practice the Kama Sutra. This ancient Indian text is full of sexual positions and techniques that can help couples have a more enjoyable and satisfying sexual relationship.

Preparation steps:

  • To get started, find a comfortable spot where you can both be relaxed and have plenty of space to move around. You might want to put some pillows down to make things more comfortable. Once you're all set up, take some time to explore each other's bodies, kissing and touching each other until you're both aroused.
  • When you're both ready, start trying out some of the positions from Kama Sutra. Take your time and experiment to find what feels good for both of you. Be sure to communicate with each other throughout, so you can both enjoy the experience.
  • Be open to trying new things. The Kama Sutra is all about experimentation, so don’t be afraid to try something new.
  • Take your time and enjoy the experience. This is not about achieving orgasm, but about exploring each other’s bodies and enjoying the physical and emotional intimacy.
  • Communicate with each other. This is the most important tip of all. Talk about what you like and don’t like, and be honest about any discomfort you may feel. This will help you both get the most out of the experience.

Some tips:

  • Set the mood with some soft lighting and maybe some scented candles.
  • Put on some relaxing music to help you both get in the mood.
  • Focus on pleasing your partner and yourself. This is about shared pleasure, not just one person getting off.

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