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Strangers in a New York Night
In this scenario, the couple gets a chance to experience the excitement and mystery of a first encounter all over again. They will act as if they've never met, engaging in flirtatious banter and getting to know each other from scratch in the cozy, bustling ambiance of a New York bar.
- Imagine it's a chilly December evening in New York. You and your partner decide on a popular bar to meet, dress up as if you're about to encounter someone for a first date. No prior communication the whole day to build the tension.
- Upon arrival, sit separately and take in the ambiance, sipping a drink. After some time, make eye contact, and one of you can make the first move by offering a drink or a charming comment. Let the conversation flow naturally, as if uncovering each other's likes, dislikes, and subtle hints of attraction for the first time.
- After a series of flirtatious exchanges and feeling the chemistry, whichever of you is playing the confident stranger, offer to 'get out of here' and continue this rendezvous back at your place (or even a booked hotel room for added novelty). Let the night unfold with the spontaneity and rush of a first-time encounter.
Preparation steps:
- Decide on the bar where you'll meet and set the time for your 'accidental' encounter. Dress to impress, as if this was a first date with someone you've been excited to meet.
- Take some time apart before the date to cultivate a feeling of longing and anticipation. Think about the persona you want to portray โ perhaps a mysterious artist or a high-powered executive in town for business.
- Each person should have a back-story ready for their character. It doesn't have to be elaborate, just enough to add to the authenticity of your 'first meeting'. Stick to the story, and let the night take you where it may.
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Some tips:
- Stay in your roles throughout the evening to keep the experience thrilling. Whispering to each other about other bar patrons as if sharing secrets can deepen the charade.
- Try not to break character, even if you run into someone you know. Introducing your partner as a 'new acquaintance' adds to the intrigue.
- After the scenario is over, talk about the experience together. Share what you found exciting or surprising about your partner's persona. This can help bring you closer and create inside jokes that only you two share.