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Dominatrix Nights

Duration: 3 hours
Budget: $150

In this Dominatrix Nights scenario, explore the journey of finding pleasure through controlled submission. It's a night where you are at the mercy of your dominatrix, your partner takes control, and you submit to their will. Suited for quiet, intimate homes, the setting allows the participants to feel comfortable and at the same time, get a thrilling experience out of the roleplay.

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  • Transform your space into a bedroom dungeon for the evening. One partner takes on the role of the Dominatrix, where control and dominance are key. Dress the part with an attractive dominatrix outfit and hold the ‘tools of power’ to set the mood. The other partner becomes the submissive one, the one ready to receive all instructions and follow orders.
  • Choose a safe space within the house that can serve as your ‘playground’. This can be the bedroom or any space that provides enough privacy and comfort. The submissive partner must follow all instructions given by the Dominatrix, from obeying simple commands, to pleasing the Dominatrix in various ways. A safe word should be established, and the Dom should always keep in mind to respect their partner’s boundaries.
  • The Dominatrix role can include a variety of actions, such as light bondage, sensual massage or sultry orders. Everything should be consensual and within comfortable limits for both partners. Get creative, be firm, and remember to keep the communication open throughout the role-play.

Preparation steps:

  • The preparation starts with purchasing a Dominatrix outfit and a few other essential tools like handcuffs and a small whip. The Dom partner should take the lead in designing the ‘dungeon’, setting up the space with little touches that add to the atmosphere. Candles, dim lighting, and soft blankets can create a comfortable and relaxed environment.
  • A sensual, just-a-bit intimidating playlist can add a lot to the ambience. Choose tracks that you both find appealing, that increase the sensual vibe of the scenario. Make sure your playlist is set up ahead of your role-play so you can both enjoy the music uninterrupted.
  • Decide on a safe word. This is a crucial part of any BDSM encounter. This is a word that's not usually used in a sexual context, such as 'Pineapple' or 'Red', that when said, all activity halts immediately. It's important both partners understand the use of it and respect it when said.

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Some tips:

  • Relaxation is essential before the scenario begins, take some time to breathe and calm your nerves before diving into your roles. This can ensure a more pleasurable experience.
  • The Dominatrix should take it slow at the start, giving the submissive partner time to adjust to the new roles and boundaries. Remember that communication is paramount in these scenarios, so make sure to check in with your partner regularly to ensure their comfort level.
  • Include positive feedback throughout the scene. The submissive partner can provide this by thanking their Dominatrix for the ‘punishment’ or the Dominatrix can offer praise to the submissive for their obedience. Offering feedback encourages further role-play and adds an element of realism to your scene.

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