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Birthday Surprise with Exotic Cuisine and Intellectual Challenge

Duration: 4-5 hours
Budget: $50-$100

Plan a intimate birthday surprise for your boyfriend at his place. Cook dinner using a recipe for a cuisine neither of you have tried before, create a personal book club for the two of you, spend the evening discussing literature and enjoying blues rock music.

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  • You have decided to surprise your boyfriend on his birthday, at his place, and just the two of you! You will start the date by cooking dinner together. Perk? You will be trying a new exotic cuisine, stirring the excitement further. Enjoying the new flavors, your discussions will start rolling. Next, you make your way to the most comfortable spot in the house and get into a personal book club session. You read some significant excerpts from a classic novel and initiate discussions on the same. Later in the evening, you can enjoy some outstanding blues rock music together, ending the night with some intellectual conversations.
  • Here's where the intellectual challenge comes in. You have prepared some tricky questions about the book and the cuisine. He'd love to figure them out, and answering them could be your beautiful birthday present to him!
  • Don't forget to surprise him not only with this whole event but also with a thoughtful gift that reflects your knowledge about his needs and interests. Maybe a blues rock vinyl of his favorite band or a book from his favorite author he doesn't own yet.

Preparation steps:

  • The preparation would involve a bit of planning. Firstly, decide on the exotic cuisine you would like to cook. Research and choose a recipe that you strongly believe that both you would enjoy cooking and tasting. Buy groceries as per the requirement.
  • Next, it is time for setting up an intellectual atmosphere. Carefully select a novel which both of you might find interesting. Based on the book, create a list of questions to discuss after reading the important excerpts. Also, prepare a set of questions on the cuisine, ingredients and method of cooking. This would add a fun element to your date.
  • Don't forget the blues rock music. Prepare a playlist of his favorite blues rock tracks. Remember, the aim is to make him feel happy and special. Lastly, don't forget to wrap up your thoughtful gift for him.

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Some tips:

  • Begin your planning a few days early to make sure you have everything you need. Make sure to keep the whole event a surprise until the last moment.
  • When you start cooking, involve him but also take the lead. Don't forget to tell him the importance of each ingredient, interesting facts about the cuisine, and what's unique about the dish you've chosen. He will appreciate your initiative and enjoy the learning experience.
  • While you're having your discussion over the novel, ensure you are open and receptive to each other's perspectives. This will lead to more interesting conversations. During the music session, allow him to discuss his favorite aspects of blues rock and its impact on him. Remember, this day is all about him!

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