Everything you create on My Spicy Vanilla is private. Your stories, characters, and locations are yours alone — nothing becomes visible to anyone else unless you decide to share it.
When you do share — in clubs, through shared plugins, in comments, or by sending stories to other people — your content enters spaces other users can see. These guidelines explain how those spaces work and what we can and can't publish.
Where These Guidelines Apply
They apply to anything other users can see:
The Basics
Your private writing isn't covered by these guidelines, but it is still subject to our Acceptable Use Policy, which applies everywhere on the platform.
Everything prohibited by the Acceptable Use Policy is also prohibited in shared spaces — and shared spaces are held to a stricter standard than private writing.
Featured clubs have extra rules on top of that, for one simple reason: a featured club's name and description are seen by people who didn't choose to see them, including people browsing the club directory for the first time.
Clubs
Clubs are for writing and reading together around a shared theme — a genre, a setting, a tone, a kink, a style of storytelling.
Clubs are private. A club's content is visible only to its members, and joining any club requires the owner's approval. Club owners can ask for their club to be featured in the club directory; featured clubs are reviewed by our team before they appear and can be reviewed again at any time. Featuring a club makes its name and description discoverable, never its content.
Every club has a language. It starts as the language of the member who created the club, and the owner can change it in the club settings. Only stories written in that language can be shared into the club, so members always know what to expect.
A club is defined by its premise — what it exists for. We don't feature clubs built around something we wouldn't generate, or around something other than writing.
Any club you create works right away. What we review is whether it gets featured in the club directory, which is why not every club created shows up there.
A club can't be built around a theme we don't allow on the platform. Some of these go further than what private writing allows — a theme that can exist in your own stories may still be off-limits as the premise of a featured club. This includes:
- Family relationships. Parent and child, siblings, and similar dynamics. This applies even when it's meant as roleplay between adults or as an age-gap kink — if the club is framed around a family relationship, we can't feature it.
- Anything that removes consent as the premise. Hypnosis, mind control, drugging, sleep, and similar themes. Consent needs to be present in the story, and these themes are built on its absence.
- Bodily waste. Scat, urine, flatulence.
- Minors, or anything implying characters under 18. Including terms like "teen", "schoolgirl", or "barely legal".
- Rape or sexual slavery as the premise. Dominance, submission, and power exchange between consenting characters are welcome — but a club can't be framed around non-consent or owning another person.
- Animals and necrophilia.
- Real people. Anyone real and identifiable, in any context — public figures and private individuals alike, whether living or deceased, and whether identified by name, by physical description, or by any other recognisable feature.
- Copyrighted characters and franchises. From films, TV, books, games, or anywhere else.
My Spicy Vanilla is a writing platform. Clubs are for stories, not for finding partners.
We can't feature clubs that:
- Look for dates, hookups, or real-life encounters of any kind — writing about a threesome is welcome, arranging one isn't
- Are written as a personal ad rather than a description of a club
- Ask members to share their age, sexuality, location, photos, or contact details
- Invite members to swap real sexual experiences instead of stories
- Point people to other websites, apps, services, or paid offers
The name and description are how people decide whether to join, so they need to work on their own.
- Names should read like a club name. Not a list of search keywords, not a string of emojis, not a sentence.
- Descriptions should say what the club is about and what members will find inside — themes, tone, the kind of stories you're hoping people write. One or two clear sentences is enough. Descriptions that are incomplete, unclear, or don't describe anything can't be featured, even when there's nothing wrong with the theme.
- Rules are optional. If you add them, keep them about how the club works.
To keep the directory readable, our team may make small edits to your club's name, description, and rules — fixing formatting, trimming excess emojis, or making the theme clearer — never to change what your club is about.
Also worth knowing: empty clubs, duplicates, and clubs created in bulk aren't featured.
After reviewing more than a hundred featuring requests, these are the mistakes we see most often. Most of them take a minute to fix.
- The description says nothing. "Great stories inside" or "come and see" gives a reader nothing to go on. Name the genre, the theme, or the tone.
- The name isn't a name. A full sentence, a list of keywords, or a string of emojis. It also gets cut off on the club card.
- The description is about you, not the club. How long you've been writing, what you personally enjoy, why you started. That belongs in a profile, not a listing.
- It reads like a real activity. Participants, encounters, "say where you're from", "tell us if it really happened". A club is for fiction.
- Consent is missing from the framing. "Forced", "taken", or "used" with no word about it being a consensual fantasy. If that's what you mean, say so.
- "No limits" claims. "Nothing is forbidden" or "every taboo welcome". It isn't true on this platform, and it invites people to test it.
- Rules in the wrong place. Themes listed as rules, conduct notes buried in the description, or rules that ask members to critique your writing.
- Membership gates. Daily posting quotas, questionnaires, or "insiders only". A featured club should be one people can simply ask to join.
- Tags instead of sentences. A list of keywords with no tone or context.
Rarer, but always declined: real-world seduction or pickup techniques, racial stereotyping, and slurs in the name.
A club can be reviewed again after it's featured. If what gets posted inside doesn't match the premise the club was featured under, we may remove it from the directory — a compliant name and description don't cover content that goes elsewhere.
You can still use it and still invite people. The link works, and you're free to share it anywhere you like — with friends, in a group chat, on Reddit. The link lets people request to join; you decide who gets in. Not being featured only affects discovery inside the platform.
If you think your club should be featured, write to us at [email protected] with the club link. If it's the description that's the problem, editing it and letting us know is usually enough.
Shared Plugins
Plugins you publish are visible to everyone, so the same rules apply to the name, the description, and the instructions inside.
Plugins built to reproduce copyrighted characters or real people, or to push generations toward prohibited content, aren't published.
A story you share goes only to the people you send it to — it isn't published anywhere. It still needs to stay within the Acceptable Use Policy, because the person reading it didn't write it.
Every story you share is checked again against the Acceptable Use Policy before anyone else can read it, and again whenever you edit it. A share that doesn't pass stays hidden from the people you shared it with, and you see the reason.
And if someone shares something with you that breaks these rules, let us know at [email protected].
Talking to Other Members
This covers comments, club discussions, and anything else you write to another person.
- Keep it civil. Disagreement is fine, personal attacks aren't.
- No harassment, hate speech, or targeting people over who they are.
- Don't post personal contact details — yours or anyone else's.
- Don't ask other members for photos, personal information, or real-world meetings.
How Moderation Works
Moderation on My Spicy Vanilla is automated and AI-based. Human review is limited to the specific circumstances described in our Terms — for example, when you ask us to review a moderation decision or when shared content is reported.
Comments are reviewed automatically as they're posted, checking for things like spam, solicitation, scams, harassment, threats, and content the Acceptable Use Policy prohibits. Flagged comments are hidden from other users.
Stories you share are reviewed again against the Acceptable Use Policy before they become visible to the people you shared them with. A flagged share stays hidden.
A flag isn't stored anywhere separate — the evaluation result is saved with the content itself and is deleted when the content is.
The full pipeline, from the checks that run before generation to how enforcement works, is described on our Trust and Safety page.
Automated systems get things wrong sometimes.
If something of yours was flagged and you believe it shouldn't have been, email us at [email protected] with the chapter URL copied from your browser. A person on our team will review it, and your report helps us evaluate our moderation and improve its accuracy.